"Looking back, I think we were all quite mature, surprisingly responsible. In earlier wars, boys of our age had just gone off to raise hell or enlist or both, but we stayed dutifully at our desks doing tomorrow's homework"
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The intent isn't to praise studiousness; it's to expose how World War II reorganized masculinity and agency for those not yet old enough to fight. The subtext is a simmering envy of the clean narrative other wars offered: the chance to prove yourself, to become legible as a man through risk. "Dutifully" is the tell - not just obedient, but conscripted into normalcy. Their responsibility is "surprisingly" responsible because it's not entirely chosen; it's what you do when history is thundering outside and the only sanctioned response is to keep your head down.
In context, this is Knowles's signature terrain: adolescence as a pressure cooker where external conflict seeps into private rivalries, self-mythmaking, and moral confusion. The war becomes an offstage force that still drafts everyone, even the boys left behind, into a performance of steadiness that doesn't quite fit.
Quote Details
| Topic | Nostalgia |
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| Source | A Separate Peace — John Knowles (novel), 1959. Passage appears in the book's opening chapter describing the Devon School and wartime youths. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Knowles, John. (2026, January 16). Looking back, I think we were all quite mature, surprisingly responsible. In earlier wars, boys of our age had just gone off to raise hell or enlist or both, but we stayed dutifully at our desks doing tomorrow's homework. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/looking-back-i-think-we-were-all-quite-mature-111145/
Chicago Style
Knowles, John. "Looking back, I think we were all quite mature, surprisingly responsible. In earlier wars, boys of our age had just gone off to raise hell or enlist or both, but we stayed dutifully at our desks doing tomorrow's homework." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/looking-back-i-think-we-were-all-quite-mature-111145/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Looking back, I think we were all quite mature, surprisingly responsible. In earlier wars, boys of our age had just gone off to raise hell or enlist or both, but we stayed dutifully at our desks doing tomorrow's homework." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/looking-back-i-think-we-were-all-quite-mature-111145/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





