"Lord, give us the wisdom to utter words that are gentle and tender, for tomorrow we may have to eat them"
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Udall’s specific intent is tactical as much as ethical. “Gentle and tender” isn’t a plea for bland civility; it’s an argument for preserving room to maneuver. In a system where alliances rotate and yesterday’s enemy becomes tomorrow’s committee partner, scorched-earth talk isn’t courage, it’s bad planning. The prayer frame lets him smuggle hard-earned realism in under the cover of humility: ask God for wisdom because your ego is the thing most likely to betray you at the microphone.
The subtext is that politics is relational labor, not pure performance. Words aren’t just expressive; they’re contractual. You may have to “eat them” because you’ll need someone’s vote, forgiveness, or cooperation, and the record will be replayed when it’s least convenient. Udall, known for self-deprecating wit and a relatively collegial style in an era still steeped in smoke-filled-room pragmatism, is staking out an old-school ethic: disagree sharply, but don’t poison the well you’ll eventually drink from. In today’s outrage economy, it reads less like quaint manners and more like survival advice.
Quote Details
| Topic | Prayer |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: If You Leave Me, Can I Come with You? (Misti B., 2015) modern compilationISBN: 9781616496173 · ID: uyPXDQAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... Lord, give us the wisdom to utter words that are gentle and tender, for tomorrow we may have to eat them. —MORRIS UDALL I was so inspired after I read this prayer the first time, I vowed never to utter another word unless it was gentle ... |
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"Lord, give us the wisdom to utter words that are gentle and tender, for tomorrow we may have to eat them." FixQuotes, 21 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lord-give-us-the-wisdom-to-utter-words-that-are-126877/. Accessed 13 Mar. 2026.









