"Lord, where we are wrong, make us willing to change; where we are right, make us easy to live with"
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Then he turns the knife: even correctness can become a sin if it makes you unbearable. “Where we are right” sounds like a win condition, but Marshall treats it as a new temptation. The subtext is domestic and civic at once: marriages rupture, committees stall, congregations split not because people lack principles, but because they weaponize them. “Easy to live with” is deliberately plainspoken, almost comic in its understatement. It drags lofty righteousness back into the space where it actually gets tested: the kitchen table, the workplace, the pew.
The rhetorical brilliance is balance. Marshall refuses relativism (there is such a thing as wrong and right) while refusing sanctimony (rightness doesn’t confer permission to dominate). In the mid-century American context that prized certainty and authority, this is a countercultural piety: a spirituality measured less by correct doctrine than by teachability and temperament. It’s humility with teeth.
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Marshall, Peter. (2026, January 16). Lord, where we are wrong, make us willing to change; where we are right, make us easy to live with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lord-where-we-are-wrong-make-us-willing-to-change-98118/
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Marshall, Peter. "Lord, where we are wrong, make us willing to change; where we are right, make us easy to live with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lord-where-we-are-wrong-make-us-willing-to-change-98118/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Lord, where we are wrong, make us willing to change; where we are right, make us easy to live with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lord-where-we-are-wrong-make-us-willing-to-change-98118/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.











