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Creativity Quote by John Deacon

"Lot's of marriages don't last as long as Queen have been together"

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It lands like an offhand joke, but it’s also a quiet flex: Queen’s durability gets measured against the institution that’s supposed to define “forever.” John Deacon isn’t romanticizing marriage so much as poking at how casually we hand out the language of permanence. Plenty of marriages, he implies, are built on ceremony and expectation; Queen, by contrast, was held together by the unglamorous mechanics of work, compromise, and mutual usefulness.

The slightly awkward grammar (“Lot’s,” “as long as Queen have”) matters because it sounds unpolished, like something said in a hallway rather than crafted for a press release. That informality makes the line feel more truthful: Deacon was famously private, not a natural salesman of myth. So when he compares the band to a marriage, it reads less like PR and more like reluctant acknowledgement that a band is an emotional contract with financial consequences.

The subtext is also defensive. Bands get treated as disposable youth culture, while marriage gets treated as a real adult commitment. Deacon flips that hierarchy. Queen’s longevity becomes proof that intense collaboration can outlast romance, not despite ego and conflict but because the stakes are explicit: writing credits, touring schedules, creative control. It’s a union where vows are replaced by rehearsals and royalty splits.

Context sharpens the point. Queen survived shifting musical eras and internal strain, and Deacon’s eventual withdrawal after Freddie Mercury’s death only underlines the comparison: some partnerships don’t “end,” they simply become impossible to continue without the person who anchored them.

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Deacon, John. (n.d.). Lot's of marriages don't last as long as Queen have been together. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-marriages-dont-last-as-long-as-queen-have-7055/

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Deacon, John. "Lot's of marriages don't last as long as Queen have been together." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-marriages-dont-last-as-long-as-queen-have-7055/.

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"Lot's of marriages don't last as long as Queen have been together." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-marriages-dont-last-as-long-as-queen-have-7055/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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John Deacon (born August 19, 1951) is a Musician from United Kingdom.

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