"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down"
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Then she punctures the fantasy with a deliberately unglamorous image: the bus. Not a heroic sacrifice, not a romantic test, just public transit - slow, inconvenient, a little humiliating if you’re used to being chauffeured. That’s the subtextual jab. The “limo breaks down” isn’t only mechanical failure; it’s the moment your brand falters, your money tightens, your name stops opening doors. Oprah has lived inside a culture where relationships can be transactional, especially for someone whose success turned into an entire industry (media empire, book club, philanthropy, “Oprah” as adjective). Her intent is protective as much as inspirational: choose people who remain when the perks vanish.
The rhetorical power is in the inversion of what we’re trained to value. The limo is easy; the bus is the point. She’s not asking for loyalty in your highlight reel but companionship in your inconvenient season. It’s self-help, yes, but also a quiet critique of how American success reshapes intimacy: when your life upgrades, your friendships can start charging rent.
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| Topic | Best Friend |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Winfrey, Oprah. (2026, January 15). Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-people-want-to-ride-with-you-in-the-limo-37142/
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Winfrey, Oprah. "Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-people-want-to-ride-with-you-in-the-limo-37142/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-people-want-to-ride-with-you-in-the-limo-37142/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.



