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Life & Wisdom Quote by Christopher Morley

"Lots of times you have to pretend to join a parade in which you're not really interested in order to get where you're going"

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Morley’s line smuggles a hard social truth into the friendly costume of a parade: progress often requires performance. A parade is public, noisy, and collective; it demands visible enthusiasm. By choosing that image, Morley sketches a world where belonging is less about inner conviction than outer choreography. You don’t just walk down the street toward your destination. You clap, you march, you fall into step. The comedy is that the charade isn’t purely hypocrisy; it’s strategy.

The intent isn’t to romanticize phoniness so much as to acknowledge how institutions work. Careers, clubs, literary circles, politics, even polite family life: they run on rituals of participation that signal loyalty. Morley points to the small bargains we make with social reality, the way we “pretend” not because we’re empty but because we’re navigating gatekeepers, norms, and timing. The subtext is mildly cynical but not bitter: authenticity is a luxury item, and most people are trying to get somewhere before they can afford it.

Context matters. Morley wrote in an America professionalizing rapidly, thick with civic organizations, newspaper culture, and workplace hierarchies. The modern self was being asked to network before it had a name for networking. His phrasing captures that early-20th-century tension between individual intention and mass social motion: the crowd moves, and if you refuse to move with it, you may stay pure but stranded.

What makes it work is its gentle candor. Morley doesn’t accuse; he winks. He turns conformity into a travel hack, letting readers recognize themselves without forcing a confession.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Morley, Christopher. (2026, January 17). Lots of times you have to pretend to join a parade in which you're not really interested in order to get where you're going. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-times-you-have-to-pretend-to-join-a-40814/

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Morley, Christopher. "Lots of times you have to pretend to join a parade in which you're not really interested in order to get where you're going." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-times-you-have-to-pretend-to-join-a-40814/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Lots of times you have to pretend to join a parade in which you're not really interested in order to get where you're going." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lots-of-times-you-have-to-pretend-to-join-a-40814/. Accessed 5 Mar. 2026.

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Christopher Morley

Christopher Morley (May 5, 1890 - March 28, 1957) was a Author from USA.

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