"Love begins by taking care of the closest ones - the ones at home"
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The intent is partly corrective. In cultures that romanticize charity as something performed “out there” - in streets, in causes, in distant suffering - she argues that moral credibility is built in the ordinary. You don’t get to outsource tenderness to institutions or grand missions while treating your family, roommates, neighbors, or coworkers like emotional furniture. “Begins” also implies expansion: home isn’t the endpoint, it’s the proving ground. If you can’t practice patience and care in the most intimate, inconvenient relationships, your public compassion risks becoming brand management.
Context matters: Mother Teresa’s work with the poor made her an international symbol of radical service. The subtext is almost defensive against the temptation of sanctity-as-spectacle. She’s warning do-gooders (and, implicitly, herself) that the desire to save strangers can mask a refusal to deal with the people who can actually hold you accountable. The closest ones see whether your love is real.
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