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Science Quote by Emanuel Swedenborg

"Love consists in desiring to give what is our own to another and feeling his delight as our own"

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Love, in Swedenborgs hands, is less a mood than a mechanism: an inner economy where ownership gets deliberately rerouted. Coming from a man trained in mines, metallurgy, and measurement, the sentence reads like a clean schematic of intimacy. Love is not defined by what you feel when you get something, but by what you feel when you give something away and then register the recipients pleasure as if it were profit in your own ledger. The surprise is how unsentimental that is. It bypasses romance and lands in cognition: the self is porous; joy can be outsourced and still count as yours.

The subtext is a quiet argument against both possessiveness and performative generosity. Wanting to give is not the same as giving to be seen giving. Swedenborg builds in a test: if the others delight does not actually become yours, youre not in love, youre managing an image or buying security. Its also a rebuke to acquisitive modern instincts long before modernity: the ego that hoards cannot love because it cannot metabolize someone elses happiness without envy or debt-keeping.

Context matters. Swedenborg straddled Enlightenment rationalism and an intensely mystical Christianity. He treats affection like a spiritual physics: true union is a transfer of selfhood, a merging of ends. In a culture that often confuses love with intensity or consumption, his definition insists on a more difficult arithmetic: the self expands by subtraction, and the deepest pleasure is shared ownership of delight.

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Emanuel Swedenborg (January 29, 1688 - March 29, 1772) was a Scientist from Sweden.

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