"Love gratified is love satisfied, and love satisfied is indifference begun"
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The subtext is less anti-love than anti-complacency. Richardson is warning that what people call devotion often depends on friction: distance, uncertainty, the chase, the narrative we tell ourselves about someone. Remove the suspense and you risk replacing intimacy with consumption. It’s an early diagnosis of a modern problem: when affection is treated like a reward to secure, it becomes vulnerable to boredom the instant it’s secured.
Context matters. Richardson’s novels (especially Pamela and Clarissa) are obsessed with courtship as a moral and social battleground, where women’s futures hinge on men’s pursuit and “successful” unions can still conceal power plays and disappointment. In a culture where marriage was both economic arrangement and reputation machine, the idea that fulfilled love curdles into indifference is not just cynical; it’s a critique of how society packages desire as an endpoint. Richardson implies the real work starts after the victory lap, when love no longer has obstacles to masquerade as proof.
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| Topic | Love |
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Richardson, Samuel. (2026, January 18). Love gratified is love satisfied, and love satisfied is indifference begun. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-gratified-is-love-satisfied-and-love-11454/
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Richardson, Samuel. "Love gratified is love satisfied, and love satisfied is indifference begun." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-gratified-is-love-satisfied-and-love-11454/.
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"Love gratified is love satisfied, and love satisfied is indifference begun." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-gratified-is-love-satisfied-and-love-11454/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.














