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Love Quote by Al Goldstein

"Love is a deception and a trap. Love is as big a myth that God sits with his flowing white beard in a throne and looks at us"

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Goldstein isn’t critiquing romance so much as he’s detonating the sanctimony around it. Calling love “a deception and a trap” is less a personal confession than a publisher’s provocation: the man made a career selling sex and scandal in a culture that insisted, loudly, it was really about purity, family, and uplift. The line works because it’s not simply anti-love; it’s anti-mythmaking. Love, in this framing, is a story society tells to launder desire into something respectable, to make need sound like destiny.

The second sentence sharpens the blade by pairing “love” with the most caricatured image of God: the throne, the white beard, the cosmic voyeurism. It’s not an argument against theology as much as a jab at the childish, marketable version of belief. Goldstein’s subtext is that both love and God-as-grandpa are comforting fictions that keep people compliant: you tolerate bad relationships, sacrifice your own appetites, and accept social rules because the myth promises meaning and rewards.

Context matters. Goldstein emerged from mid-century American moral panic and the porn wars, when public life was drenched in hypocrisy and private life in experimentation. His voice is intentionally abrasive, built to offend the pious and puncture the sentimental. The cynicism reads like armor: if love is a trap, then vulnerability is for suckers. It’s a bleak worldview, but also a canny one-liner about how institutions survive: by turning messy human desire into a clean, profitable faith.

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Goldstein, Al. (2026, January 18). Love is a deception and a trap. Love is as big a myth that God sits with his flowing white beard in a throne and looks at us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-deception-and-a-trap-love-is-as-big-a-8947/

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Goldstein, Al. "Love is a deception and a trap. Love is as big a myth that God sits with his flowing white beard in a throne and looks at us." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-deception-and-a-trap-love-is-as-big-a-8947/.

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"Love is a deception and a trap. Love is as big a myth that God sits with his flowing white beard in a throne and looks at us." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-deception-and-a-trap-love-is-as-big-a-8947/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Al Goldstein

Al Goldstein (January 10, 1936 - December 19, 2013) was a Publisher from USA.

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