"Love is a game that two can play and both win"
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The trick is the word “game.” It flirts with cynicism - games have rules, strategy, performance - but it refuses the usual conclusion that games create losers. Gabor reframes intimacy as a cooperative competition: the point isn’t domination or self-sacrifice, it’s mutual advantage. That’s not naive; it’s quietly political. It pushes back on older scripts where love is either conquest (someone “wins” someone) or martyrdom (someone pays). In her version, the only way the game works is if both people are active players, not props in each other’s story.
There’s also an actor’s subtext: relationships are partly staging. You choose the tone, you learn your partner’s cues, you improvise when the scene goes off-script. The line smuggles in a pragmatic optimism - love can be pleasurable, negotiated, and repeatable - without pretending it’s effortless. The “both win” is aspirational, but it’s also a standard: if someone’s losing, you’re not playing the right game.
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Gabor, Eva. (n.d.). Love is a game that two can play and both win. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-game-that-two-can-play-and-both-win-82322/
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"Love is a game that two can play and both win." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-game-that-two-can-play-and-both-win-82322/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.











