"Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else"
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Romance, Shaw suggests, isn’t a sacred recognition of truth; it’s a highly committed act of mismeasurement. Calling love a “gross exaggeration” lands like a punchline with a thesis attached: the feeling isn’t denied, but it’s indicted for bad math. “Gross” does double duty, meaning both excessive and faintly disgusting, yanking the reader away from Valentine-card piety and toward the body’s embarrassing overinvestment.
The real bite is in “the difference between one person and everybody else.” Shaw frames love not as discovery but as contrast-making, a psychological spotlight that turns a single human into a categorical exception. The subtext is suspicious of the stories we tell ourselves to justify attachment: we inflate a cluster of ordinary traits into destiny, uniqueness, proof. It’s not that the beloved has no distinctions; it’s that love weaponizes distinction, transforming preference into metaphysics.
Context matters: Shaw was a dramatist of ideas who spent a career puncturing respectable sentimentality. In his world, people are rarely guided by pure feeling; they’re steered by self-interest, social scripts, and the human need to feel chosen. This line belongs to that skeptical tradition, closer to anti-romantic comedy than confession. It also hints at the social consequences of “exaggeration”: once one person becomes “not like everybody else,” everyone else becomes interchangeable, and that’s how devotion shades into exclusion, jealousy, even cruelty. Shaw’s intent isn’t to make love small; it’s to expose the rhetorical trick that makes it feel enormous.
The real bite is in “the difference between one person and everybody else.” Shaw frames love not as discovery but as contrast-making, a psychological spotlight that turns a single human into a categorical exception. The subtext is suspicious of the stories we tell ourselves to justify attachment: we inflate a cluster of ordinary traits into destiny, uniqueness, proof. It’s not that the beloved has no distinctions; it’s that love weaponizes distinction, transforming preference into metaphysics.
Context matters: Shaw was a dramatist of ideas who spent a career puncturing respectable sentimentality. In his world, people are rarely guided by pure feeling; they’re steered by self-interest, social scripts, and the human need to feel chosen. This line belongs to that skeptical tradition, closer to anti-romantic comedy than confession. It also hints at the social consequences of “exaggeration”: once one person becomes “not like everybody else,” everyone else becomes interchangeable, and that’s how devotion shades into exclusion, jealousy, even cruelty. Shaw’s intent isn’t to make love small; it’s to expose the rhetorical trick that makes it feel enormous.
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