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Creativity Quote by Ray Charles

"Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap"

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Ray Charles treats "love" the way a great musician treats silence: as something powerful precisely because it isn't sprayed everywhere. Coming from a singer who spent his career selling feeling for three minutes at a time, the line reads like a self-imposed ethic. He's not rejecting romance or tenderness; he's arguing for scarcity as a kind of truth-telling. When he says the word becomes "cheap", he's pointing at emotional inflation: when everyone spends the same currency constantly, it stops buying anything.

The intent is partly personal discipline, partly a critique of performative sentiment. In pop culture, "I love you" can be a hook, a slogan, a crowd-pleaser - a shortcut to intimacy that asks for applause without earning trust. Charles is insisting on a higher bar: if "love" is to mean commitment, sacrifice, or enduring care, you can't use it as conversational confetti. The subtext is almost musical: repetition without variation turns melody into jingle.

There's also a sly professional context here. Charles navigated an industry built on exaggeration - heartbreak marketed as spectacle, devotion packaged as product. His insistence on meaning what he says is a way of reclaiming emotional credibility in a space that constantly pressures artists to overstate. It's not anti-romantic; it's pro-precision. He wants the word to land like a note you can feel in your chest, not like background noise you forget by the next track.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Charles, Ray. (2026, January 15). Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/

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Charles, Ray. "Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ray Charles (September 23, 1930 - June 10, 2004) was a Musician from USA.

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