"Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap"
About this Quote
The intent is partly personal discipline, partly a critique of performative sentiment. In pop culture, "I love you" can be a hook, a slogan, a crowd-pleaser - a shortcut to intimacy that asks for applause without earning trust. Charles is insisting on a higher bar: if "love" is to mean commitment, sacrifice, or enduring care, you can't use it as conversational confetti. The subtext is almost musical: repetition without variation turns melody into jingle.
There's also a sly professional context here. Charles navigated an industry built on exaggeration - heartbreak marketed as spectacle, devotion packaged as product. His insistence on meaning what he says is a way of reclaiming emotional credibility in a space that constantly pressures artists to overstate. It's not anti-romantic; it's pro-precision. He wants the word to land like a note you can feel in your chest, not like background noise you forget by the next track.
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| Topic | I Love You |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Charles, Ray. (2026, January 15). Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/
Chicago Style
Charles, Ray. "Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is a special word, and I use it only when I mean it. You say the word too much and it becomes cheap." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-special-word-and-i-use-it-only-when-i-161651/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










