"Love is a trap. When it appears, we see only its light, not its shadows"
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The clever move is the shift from morality (“trap” implies danger and consequence) to perception (“light” and “shadows” implies partial seeing). Coelho isn’t arguing that love is bad; he’s arguing that love is asymmetrical information. Early love rewards optimism and punishes scrutiny. You don’t ignore the shadows because you’re stupid; you ignore them because the light feels like meaning. That’s the subtext: desire isn’t just wanting someone, it’s wanting the world to make sense, and love is one of the fastest ways to reorganize reality into a coherent, flattering narrative.
In Coelho’s broader universe (all those allegorical journeys and lessons smuggled inside simple sentences), the quote works as spiritual caution more than cynicism. It asks for a kind of adult mysticism: keep the radiance, but remember that anything bright enough to guide you is also bright enough to blind you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coelho, Paulo. (n.d.). Love is a trap. When it appears, we see only its light, not its shadows. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-trap-when-it-appears-we-see-only-its-1206/
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Coelho, Paulo. "Love is a trap. When it appears, we see only its light, not its shadows." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-trap-when-it-appears-we-see-only-its-1206/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is a trap. When it appears, we see only its light, not its shadows." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-a-trap-when-it-appears-we-see-only-its-1206/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.








