"Love is all, it gives all, and it takes all"
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The line works because of its ruthless symmetry. Love “gives all” evokes generosity, but Kierkegaard immediately refuses the fantasy that giving is clean or cost-free. “And it takes all” flips the emotional valence: love is also dispossession. It demands time, ego, control, and the cherished illusion that you can remain untouched while being devoted. The subtext is anti-romantic in the most bracing way. If love is real, it will feel like loss as often as it feels like warmth, because it forces a reordering of priorities that the self experiences as subtraction.
Context matters: Kierkegaard wrote against both bourgeois complacency and the smooth, system-building confidence of Hegelian philosophy. He keeps dragging big abstractions back to lived inwardness, where choices bite. Here, the bite is this: love is not a supplement to a well-managed life. It is the wager that can claim the whole person - and if it doesn’t, it may not be love at all.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | Later attribution: Making Sense of Suicide? (2020) modern compilationISBN: 9781848880689 · ID: pvDcDwAAQBAJ
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... Søren Kierkegaard said that ' Love is all , it gives all , and it takes all . But what does it mean to love unconditionally ? Is dying for love the ultimate sacrifice and the ultimate demonstration of love ? This chapter will discuss ... |
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"Love is all, it gives all, and it takes all." FixQuotes, 1 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-all-it-gives-all-and-it-takes-all-10010/. Accessed 13 Mar. 2026.













