"Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes"
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That’s pure Nietzschean psychology. He’s suspicious of moralized feelings that advertise themselves as pure. Friendship, celebrated as honest and elevating, can also be a shelter for vanity, a pact of mutual preservation. The friend may see precisely what love can’t see - the weakness, the self-deception, the mediocre motive - and still decide not to speak. Silence becomes a technology of loyalty.
The subtext also lands on Nietzsche’s broader project: dismantling comforting narratives about virtue. He’s not advocating cynicism as a lifestyle so much as describing the human economy of relationships, where affection trades in selective perception. Friendship, like morality, can be a performance that keeps the social world workable. Telling the whole truth all the time isn’t heroic; it’s often antisocial, sometimes cruel.
Read against Nietzsche’s own isolation and his contempt for herd-conformity, the aphorism feels like a warning. Choose your blindness carefully. Love may be an intoxication. Friendship is the sober agreement about what not to see.
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