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Love Quote by Charles Bukowski

"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality"

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Romance, for Bukowski, is not a cathedral; it is weather. The image of morning fog does two things at once: it makes love feel tactile and ordinary, and it preloads the ending. Fog is pretty precisely because it is temporary, because it softens the brutal edges of the world and lets you pretend the streetlight glow is magic. You wake up early, before the sun, in that half-life when everything looks gentler than it will at 9 a.m. That’s the seduction: love as a brief atmospheric condition that makes reality look livable.

Then he turns the screw with that last line: “the first daylight of reality”. Daylight isn’t evil here; it’s indifferent. Reality doesn’t attack love, it simply reveals what was always there. Bukowski’s intent is less to romanticize heartbreak than to puncture the cultural promise that love is a stable refuge. He’s mocking the way we treat infatuation as proof of destiny, when it’s often a chemical lullaby we sing to ourselves in the dark.

The subtext is classic Bukowski: tenderness laced with suspicion, intimacy shadowed by self-protection. A man who wrote so often from the gutter and the barstool doesn’t trust anything that needs dim lighting to look good. In the late-20th-century milieu of working-class exhaustion, cheap rooms, and hangovers-as-metaphysics, this metaphor lands because it doesn’t deny the beauty of the fog. It just refuses to confuse beauty with durability. Love can be real and still be weather: moving through you, altering the view, and leaving you with the same street when it’s gone.

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Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/

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Bukowski, Charles. "Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/.

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"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Charles Bukowski

Charles Bukowski (August 16, 1920 - March 9, 1994) was a Poet from USA.

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