"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality"
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Then he turns the screw with that last line: “the first daylight of reality”. Daylight isn’t evil here; it’s indifferent. Reality doesn’t attack love, it simply reveals what was always there. Bukowski’s intent is less to romanticize heartbreak than to puncture the cultural promise that love is a stable refuge. He’s mocking the way we treat infatuation as proof of destiny, when it’s often a chemical lullaby we sing to ourselves in the dark.
The subtext is classic Bukowski: tenderness laced with suspicion, intimacy shadowed by self-protection. A man who wrote so often from the gutter and the barstool doesn’t trust anything that needs dim lighting to look good. In the late-20th-century milieu of working-class exhaustion, cheap rooms, and hangovers-as-metaphysics, this metaphor lands because it doesn’t deny the beauty of the fog. It just refuses to confuse beauty with durability. Love can be real and still be weather: moving through you, altering the view, and leaving you with the same street when it’s gone.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bukowski, Charles. (2026, February 10). Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/
Chicago Style
Bukowski, Charles. "Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality." FixQuotes. February 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It's just a little while, and then it burns away... Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality." FixQuotes, 10 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-kind-of-like-when-you-see-a-fog-in-the-185164/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














