"Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life"
About this Quote
The intent is classic Buscaglia: motivational, accessible, almost stubbornly anti-cynical. But the subtext is sharper than the Hallmark sheen people sometimes associate with him. He’s quietly arguing against the midcentury American trap of productivity-as-virtue, where work, status, and self-reliance can become respectable alibis for emotional avoidance. “Miss love” isn’t only about failing to find romance. It’s about neglecting intimacy, tenderness, community, and the daily practice of being affected by other people.
Context matters: Buscaglia rose to prominence in the 1970s, a moment when pop psychology and human potential rhetoric met widespread social disillusionment. His message reads like a counter-program to burnout before we had the word for it. The line works because it refuses loopholes. You can’t compensate for lovelessness with success, distraction, or good intentions. In Buscaglia’s frame, those are just different ways of missing the point.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buscaglia, Leo. (2026, January 14). Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-life-and-if-you-miss-love-you-miss-life-32509/
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Buscaglia, Leo. "Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-life-and-if-you-miss-love-you-miss-life-32509/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-life-and-if-you-miss-love-you-miss-life-32509/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.









