"Love is like a faucet, it turns off and on"
About this Quote
The subtext is control and its absence. A faucet implies a hand on the handle, someone deciding when the flow starts and stops. In a lot of Holiday's songs, love isn't an equal partnership; it's leverage. One person gets to ration warmth, attention, fidelity. The other is left standing at the sink, waiting for the sound of running water. That asymmetry mirrors the broader conditions surrounding Holiday's life and career - a woman navigating male-dominated rooms, exploitative contracts, racial violence, and relentless scrutiny. When stability is scarce, feelings can start to resemble a utility that gets shut off when the bill comes due.
It also carries a singer's pragmatic wisdom: emotion isn't sacred because it's constant; it's sacred because it's fragile. Holiday's genius was making fragility sound unsentimental. She turns romance into a mechanism, then dares you to admit how often that's what it is.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Holiday, Billie. (n.d.). Love is like a faucet, it turns off and on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-like-a-faucet-it-turns-off-and-on-39832/
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Holiday, Billie. "Love is like a faucet, it turns off and on." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-like-a-faucet-it-turns-off-and-on-39832/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is like a faucet, it turns off and on." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-like-a-faucet-it-turns-off-and-on-39832/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











