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Love Quote by Bruce Lee

"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable"

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Bruce Lee frames love the way he framed fighting: not as a mystical lightning bolt, but as a discipline that changes shape with time. The opening move, "friendship caught on fire", is a sly reset of romantic mythology. Instead of love arriving from nowhere, it starts with something earned - camaraderie, trust, the everyday choice to be around someone - then gets ignited. That metaphor keeps passion, but refuses the fantasy that passion is the foundation.

The image progression does the real work. Flame is "pretty", "hot and fierce", and also "only light and flickering" - a brutal little demotion. Early intensity isn’t dismissed, but it’s treated as unreliable theater: bright, attention-grabbing, easily blown out. The subtext is a warning to people who confuse spectacle for stability. If you chase only the blaze, you’ll keep mistaking smoke for commitment.

Then Lee pivots to coals: less photogenic, more consequential. "Our hearts mature" quietly makes love a joint project, not a private feeling. Maturity here implies training - the same ethos behind Lee’s public persona in the early 1970s, when he sold Western audiences an Eastern-inflected philosophy of self-cultivation. Coals "deep-burning and unquenchable" suggests a heat that survives weather, routine, even boredom. It’s also an argument for longevity as proof: real love stops performing and starts sustaining.

In an era that increasingly markets romance as instant chemistry, Lee’s metaphor insists on a different status symbol: endurance.

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Bruce Lee (November 27, 1940 - July 20, 1973) was a Actor from USA.

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