"Love is not only something you feel, it is something you do"
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Wilkerson’s line is a quiet rebuke disguised as pastoral clarity. By yanking love out of the realm of private feeling and relocating it in the public world of behavior, he’s taking aim at a comfortable modern arrangement: we want our inner states to count as moral credentials. If I feel warmly, if I “mean well,” then I’ve done my part. Wilkerson, a Pentecostal clergyman best known for street-level ministry and a confrontational sincerity, insists that sentiment without sacrifice is closer to self-soothing than to love.
The phrasing does a lot of work. “Not only” concedes the emotional reality without granting it authority; feelings matter, they’re just not the standard. “Something you do” is almost bluntly unromantic, turning love into labor: time, attention, restraint, forgiveness, showing up, giving things up. It’s also a theological move. In Christian ethics, love (agape) is modeled less as chemistry than as covenant and service; the proof is visible, measurable, sometimes inconvenient.
The subtext is a warning against performative spirituality and hollow piety: don’t confuse a rush of devotion, a worship-song high, or a charitable self-image for actual care of another person. It also pushes back on a culture that treats authenticity as a feeling report. Wilkerson is arguing for accountability: love that can’t survive when it costs you wasn’t love; it was mood.
The phrasing does a lot of work. “Not only” concedes the emotional reality without granting it authority; feelings matter, they’re just not the standard. “Something you do” is almost bluntly unromantic, turning love into labor: time, attention, restraint, forgiveness, showing up, giving things up. It’s also a theological move. In Christian ethics, love (agape) is modeled less as chemistry than as covenant and service; the proof is visible, measurable, sometimes inconvenient.
The subtext is a warning against performative spirituality and hollow piety: don’t confuse a rush of devotion, a worship-song high, or a charitable self-image for actual care of another person. It also pushes back on a culture that treats authenticity as a feeling report. Wilkerson is arguing for accountability: love that can’t survive when it costs you wasn’t love; it was mood.
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