"Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love"
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Love comes with ready-made narratives - romance, sacrifice, family duty, religious devotion. Even when love fails, it fails along familiar lines. Friendship has fewer institutional supports and fewer cultural rituals to keep it intact. It demands choice without the excuse of blood, law, or desire. It asks for loyalty without ownership, closeness without possession, honesty without the romantic alibi of passion. That’s why friendship can be more fragile, and why it can also be more ethically bracing: you stay because you decide to.
Peguy, writing as a French Catholic-tinged socialist intellectual in the years before World War I, is also making a civic argument under the personal one. Modern life can mass-produce talent and spectacle; it cannot mass-produce fidelity. In a world drifting toward ideological tribalism and mechanized conflict, he implies that the scarcest resource isn’t brilliance - it’s bonds strong enough to resist the churn.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Peguy, Charles. (2026, January 14). Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-rarer-than-genius-itself-and-friendship-2824/
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Peguy, Charles. "Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-rarer-than-genius-itself-and-friendship-2824/.
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"Love is rarer than genius itself. And friendship is rarer than love." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-rarer-than-genius-itself-and-friendship-2824/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.











