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Love Quote by Shota Rustaveli

"Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing"

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Tenderness is doing a lot of quiet polemical work here. Rustaveli isn’t offering a gauzy valentine; he’s drawing a moral boundary line, and he does it with the calm certainty of someone writing for a courtly culture where desire was both omnipresent and politically charged. Calling love “hard to be known” is a warning: the real thing is subtle, easily confused with its louder impersonator. Lust announces itself. Love, in Rustaveli’s frame, requires discernment, patience, and a willingness to live with ambiguity.

The sentence structure reinforces the point. He starts with softness (“tender”), then pivots into an almost legalistic separation: “apart”, “cannot be likened”, “one thing”, “another thing”. The repetition isn’t decorative; it’s a rhetorical quarantine. He’s trying to prevent contamination in the reader’s mind, as if the very act of comparing the two is already a concession to lust’s glamour. In a medieval poetic tradition that often romanticized longing, this insistence reads as an ethical corrective: desire may spark the story, but it cannot be trusted to carry it.

There’s also a subtle claim about knowledge and power. If true love is hard to know, then those who can recognize it possess a kind of social and spiritual authority. Rustaveli flatters the attentive reader into aspiring to that higher literacy of the heart, where tenderness becomes not weakness but proof of seriousness.

Quote Details

TopicLove
SourceThe Man in the Panther's Skin (1912, tr. Marjory Scott Wardrop), Introductory Quatrains, stanza 9.
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Rustaveli, Shota. (2026, February 23). Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/

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Rustaveli, Shota. "Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing." FixQuotes. February 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/.

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"Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.

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Shota Rustaveli (1160 AC - 1220 AC) was a Poet from Georgia.

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