"Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing"
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The sentence structure reinforces the point. He starts with softness (“tender”), then pivots into an almost legalistic separation: “apart”, “cannot be likened”, “one thing”, “another thing”. The repetition isn’t decorative; it’s a rhetorical quarantine. He’s trying to prevent contamination in the reader’s mind, as if the very act of comparing the two is already a concession to lust’s glamour. In a medieval poetic tradition that often romanticized longing, this insistence reads as an ethical corrective: desire may spark the story, but it cannot be trusted to carry it.
There’s also a subtle claim about knowledge and power. If true love is hard to know, then those who can recognize it possess a kind of social and spiritual authority. Rustaveli flatters the attentive reader into aspiring to that higher literacy of the heart, where tenderness becomes not weakness but proof of seriousness.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | The Man in the Panther's Skin (1912, tr. Marjory Scott Wardrop), Introductory Quatrains, stanza 9. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rustaveli, Shota. (2026, February 23). Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/
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Rustaveli, Shota. "Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing." FixQuotes. February 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is tender, a thing hard to be known. True love is something apart from lust, and cannot be likened thereto; it is one thing; lust is quite another thing." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-tender-a-thing-hard-to-be-known-true-love-185653/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.











