"Love is the flower you've got to let grow"
About this Quote
The intent feels less like romance and more like practice. Lennon is pointing at the kind of love that can’t be willed into existence through intensity, grand gestures, or public performance. A flower doesn’t respond to speeches; it responds to conditions: time, patience, attention, room. The subtext is that love is fragile under pressure and that our need to manage outcomes is often what strangles it. “You’ve got to let” implies resistance on the other side of the sentence: our habits of jealousy, possessiveness, and impatience.
Context matters because Lennon lived at the intersection of mass adoration and private unraveling. Coming out of Beatlemania, political spectacle, and his own messy transformations, he’d seen how easily “love” gets turned into merch, messaging, and moral posturing. The flower metaphor offers a reset: stop branding love as an achievement and treat it as an environment you cultivate. It’s disarmingly simple, which is why it lands; it refuses drama while still demanding responsibility.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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| Source | "Mind Games" (song), John Lennon, 1973 , lyric: "Love is a flower, you've got to let it grow." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lennon, John. (2026, January 14). Love is the flower you've got to let grow. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-flower-youve-got-to-let-grow-13863/
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Lennon, John. "Love is the flower you've got to let grow." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-flower-youve-got-to-let-grow-13863/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love is the flower you've got to let grow." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-flower-youve-got-to-let-grow-13863/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









