"Love is the hardest lesson in Christianity; but, for that reason, it should be most our care to learn it"
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As a Quaker leader writing in a century of sectarian heat, Penn is also smuggling in a political ethic. Early Friends were harassed, jailed, and fined; “love” in that setting is not vague benevolence but restraint, nonretaliation, and the refusal to treat opponents as enemies worth dehumanizing. Calling it the hardest lesson acknowledges the adrenaline of grievance and the social rewards of righteousness. It’s easy to defend “truth” when it comes with a tribe. It’s harder to practice love when the other side feels dangerous, ridiculous, or morally polluted.
The subtext is also a critique of performative piety. Penn implies that Christians often major in the minors: correct belief, public respectability, the satisfying clarity of condemnation. Love, by contrast, is messy. It requires proximity, patience, and the humiliating discipline of seeing an adversary as a person. That’s why “for that reason” lands: difficulty isn’t an excuse to demote the commandment; it’s the reason to prioritize it. Penn’s Christianity isn’t softer than the era’s conflicts. It’s tougher, because it demands self-government before it demands control over others.
Quote Details
| Topic | Faith |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Life of William Penn (Mason Locke Weems, 1854) modern compilationID: aR0MAAAAYAAJ
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... Love is the hardest lesson in christianity ; but , for that reason , it should be most our care to learn it . ' Diffi- cilia quæ pulchra . ' 549. It is a severe rebuke upon us , that God makes us so many allowances , and we make so few ... |
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"Love is the hardest lesson in Christianity; but, for that reason, it should be most our care to learn it." FixQuotes, 26 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-hardest-lesson-in-christianity-but-96068/. Accessed 30 Mar. 2026.





