"Love is the outreach of self toward completion"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuke to two temptations: rugged individualism and performative charity. If the self is incomplete on its own, then isolation isn’t strength; it’s starvation. But if love is “outreach,” then it can’t stay in the realm of intentions or beliefs; it has to take the form of attention, responsibility, and risk. The phrase also dodges the sugary language that often hides power. “Completion” implies growth through relationship, not possession of another person. It suggests that love is less about finding someone to fill you up and more about becoming capable of a fuller humanity by moving beyond the fortress of the ego.
Sockman’s genius here is rhetorical economy: he makes love sound like the most practical kind of spiritual work.
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| Topic | Love |
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Sockman, Ralph W. (2026, January 17). Love is the outreach of self toward completion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-outreach-of-self-toward-completion-26618/
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Sockman, Ralph W. "Love is the outreach of self toward completion." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-outreach-of-self-toward-completion-26618/.
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"Love is the outreach of self toward completion." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-the-outreach-of-self-toward-completion-26618/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













