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Life & Wisdom Quote by Andre Breton

"Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself"

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Breton’s line doesn’t treat love as a warm glow so much as a hostile takeover of the self. You don’t “find” your soulmate; you get revised. The romance here is epistemological: love as a sudden jump-cut in self-knowledge, delivered by another person’s gaze. It’s a definition that flatters intimacy while also smuggling in Surrealism’s core obsession - the idea that reality, including your identity, is less stable than you’ve been told.

The intent is slyly anti-sentimental. Breton dodges the usual vocabulary of devotion and replaces it with discovery, as if the beloved were an X-ray machine. “Tells you something new” suggests both revelation and narration: the other person doesn’t just observe you, they author you. That’s the subtextual tension. Being seen can feel like liberation, but it can also feel like surrendering the editorial control you assumed you had over your own story.

Context matters: Breton, the Surrealist ringleader, spent his career attacking bourgeois common sense and celebrating encounters that crack open the rational mind - chance meetings, shocks, dream logic. In that world, love isn’t a stable institution; it’s an event. The most erotic promise isn’t comfort, it’s estrangement from your old self, a productive alienation that makes your inner life suddenly legible.

The line works because it’s both tender and unsettling. It tells you love is real precisely when it disrupts your self-certainty, when someone’s presence makes your “I” feel less like a fortress and more like a draft.

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Breton, Andre. (2026, January 11). Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/

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Breton, Andre. "Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/.

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"Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Andre Breton

Andre Breton (February 18, 1896 - September 28, 1966) was a Poet from France.

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