"Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself"
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The intent is slyly anti-sentimental. Breton dodges the usual vocabulary of devotion and replaces it with discovery, as if the beloved were an X-ray machine. “Tells you something new” suggests both revelation and narration: the other person doesn’t just observe you, they author you. That’s the subtextual tension. Being seen can feel like liberation, but it can also feel like surrendering the editorial control you assumed you had over your own story.
Context matters: Breton, the Surrealist ringleader, spent his career attacking bourgeois common sense and celebrating encounters that crack open the rational mind - chance meetings, shocks, dream logic. In that world, love isn’t a stable institution; it’s an event. The most erotic promise isn’t comfort, it’s estrangement from your old self, a productive alienation that makes your inner life suddenly legible.
The line works because it’s both tender and unsettling. It tells you love is real precisely when it disrupts your self-certainty, when someone’s presence makes your “I” feel less like a fortress and more like a draft.
Quote Details
| Topic | Soulmate |
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| Source | Rejected source: First papers of surrealism : hanging by André Breton, his... (Breton, André, 1896-1966, Duchamp, Ma..., 1942)IA: firstpaperssur00bret
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on September 28, 2025 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Breton, Andre. (2026, January 11). Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/
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Breton, Andre. "Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/.
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"Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-when-you-meet-someone-who-tells-you-134310/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.











