"Love makes a subtle man out of a crude one, it gives eloquence to the mute, it gives courage the cowardly and makes the idle quick and sharp"
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The subtext is both flattering and suspicious. Flattering because it assumes most of us are unfinished, and love is the rare force that makes us worth our own company. Suspicious because these upgrades are social, almost performative. "Subtle", "eloquence", "courage" aren't private virtues; they're things other people notice. Love, here, is a reputational pressure cooker. You polish yourself because desire puts you under surveillance, because longing makes you audition for someone else's regard. Even silence becomes a liability you learn to overcome.
Ruiz, a medieval Spanish poet steeped in courtly love conventions and moral instruction, writes from a culture where love was both celebrated and policed: a spur to refined behavior, but also a destabilizer that could turn piety into pretext. That tension hums underneath the praise. Love can civilize, yes - but it can also make you cunning, fast, strategically "sharp". The poem admires the makeover while hinting at the cost: you become better, and less innocent, at the same time.
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| Topic | Love |
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Ruiz, Juan. (n.d.). Love makes a subtle man out of a crude one, it gives eloquence to the mute, it gives courage the cowardly and makes the idle quick and sharp. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-makes-a-subtle-man-out-of-a-crude-one-it-121602/
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Ruiz, Juan. "Love makes a subtle man out of a crude one, it gives eloquence to the mute, it gives courage the cowardly and makes the idle quick and sharp." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-makes-a-subtle-man-out-of-a-crude-one-it-121602/.
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"Love makes a subtle man out of a crude one, it gives eloquence to the mute, it gives courage the cowardly and makes the idle quick and sharp." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-makes-a-subtle-man-out-of-a-crude-one-it-121602/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









