"Love must be learned, and learned again; there is no end to it"
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The sentence works because it refuses the romance myth without turning cynical. “Must” carries a moral pressure: love isn’t optional decoration, it’s work you owe to other people and, uncomfortably, to yourself. “Learned again” is the knife twist. It admits relapse. It implies that the self isn’t a stable instrument; you change, others change, the world changes, and whatever lesson you thought you mastered gets invalidated by the next season of loss or intimacy. That repetition also gestures toward forgiveness: not a single heroic act, but a recurring recalibration.
“There is no end to it” lands as both consolation and warning. Consolation, because failure doesn’t disqualify you; the curriculum is infinite. Warning, because there’s no graduation, no permanent proof of virtue. In the 20th century’s churn of broken social contracts and modern disillusionment, Porter’s line is a rebuke to sentimental certainty: if love is real, it will keep demanding revision, attention, and humility.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Porter, Katherine Anne. (2026, January 14). Love must be learned, and learned again; there is no end to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-must-be-learned-and-learned-again-there-is-122686/
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Porter, Katherine Anne. "Love must be learned, and learned again; there is no end to it." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-must-be-learned-and-learned-again-there-is-122686/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love must be learned, and learned again; there is no end to it." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-must-be-learned-and-learned-again-there-is-122686/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












