Daily Inspiration Quote by Mortimer Adler

Adler’s line is a quiet provocation aimed at every romantic fantasy that treats love as an atmosphere you fall into and then stop maintaining. “Impossible” is doing the heavy lifting: he’s not praising conversation as a nice add-on, he’s defining love as a practice that collapses without it. Coming from a philosopher who spent his career translating “big ideas” into public life, the intent feels almost civic. Love isn’t a private mood; it’s a sustained act of understanding, and understanding requires language.

The subtext is anti-mystical and, in a way, anti-sentimental. Adler is skeptical of the notion that two people can “just know” each other through intuition, chemistry, or shared routines. Conversation here isn’t mere talk. It’s disclosure, negotiation, clarification, repair. It’s the medium through which desire becomes commitment, conflict becomes information, and affection becomes something you can actually live inside. Without it, what you have may still be attachment, nostalgia, lust, loyalty, habit - but not love in Adler’s stricter sense, because love for him implies willing the good of the other as other. That kind of willing needs feedback, not projection.

Context matters: Adler’s mid-century project (Great Books, democratic education, a faith in reasoned dialogue) assumes that human flourishing is built through exchange, not declaration. Read that way, the quote is also a critique of power: silence benefits the person least willing to be known. Conversation is accountability. It forces love to leave the realm of self-image and enter the riskier world where another mind talks back.