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Love Quote by J Balvin

"Love yourself, because when you love yourself, you can love others better"

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J Balvin’s line reads like a wellness slogan until you hear it as an artist’s survival tactic. In pop culture, “self-love” often gets flattened into consumer confidence: buy the thing, post the selfie, call it healing. Balvin’s version is more functional and less glossy. It frames self-love not as a destination but as infrastructure: the emotional plumbing that keeps your relationships from turning into leaks, demands, and constant reassurance.

The intent is quietly corrective. Latin pop, like most celebrity ecosystems, runs on public adoration and private depletion. Balvin has spoken openly about anxiety and depression, and that context matters: this isn’t a platitude from the mountaintop; it’s advice from inside the machine, where approval is abundant and stability isn’t. “Because” does the heavy lifting here. He isn’t praising self-love as virtue; he’s arguing for it as prerequisite. If you don’t like yourself, “loving others” can easily become bargaining, people-pleasing, or emotional outsourcing.

The subtext also pushes back against romantic myths that treat love as rescue. Balvin flips the script: your partner, friends, and fans aren’t supposed to be your self-esteem prosthetic. That lands especially hard in a culture that celebrates sacrifice as proof of affection. He’s saying: care that comes from emptiness is not generosity; it’s hunger with better branding.

What makes the quote work is its simplicity paired with its boundary. It gives self-love a social purpose, not a self-absorbed one: you’re not loving yourself to become untouchable, you’re doing it so your love for others isn’t a request for repair.

Quote Details

TopicSelf-Love
SourceJ Balvin interviews/comments on self-love and wellbeing across lifestyle/press appearances (2019–2021) [translated]
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Balvin, J. (2026, February 4). Love yourself, because when you love yourself, you can love others better. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-because-when-you-love-yourself-you-184889/

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Balvin, J. "Love yourself, because when you love yourself, you can love others better." FixQuotes. February 4, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-because-when-you-love-yourself-you-184889/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love yourself, because when you love yourself, you can love others better." FixQuotes, 4 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-because-when-you-love-yourself-you-184889/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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J Balvin

J Balvin (born May 7, 1985) is a Musician from Colombia.

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