"Love yourself instead of abusing yourself"
About this Quote
The line works because it refuses to romanticize self-improvement. "Instead of" sets up a clean moral swap: the default mode for many people isn’t neutral self-regard, it’s self-punishment masquerading as discipline. Kurkova’s phrasing names that ugliness without dressing it up in wellness language. Abuse is a hard word; it forces the listener to consider whether their routines (dieting, "earning" food, punishing workouts, obsessive comparison) are care or coercion.
There’s also a savvy cultural read here. The 2010s-and-beyond beauty economy sells "self-love" as a product, while social media algorithms keep feeding people their own perceived failures. Kurkova’s sentence cuts across that contradiction: you don’t buy your way into self-acceptance, you choose to stop treating yourself like an enemy. Coming from someone whose job is literally to be looked at, it’s a reminder that the harshest gaze often isn’t the public’s - it’s the one we internalize and rehearse alone.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kurkova, Karolina. (2026, January 16). Love yourself instead of abusing yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-instead-of-abusing-yourself-91976/
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Kurkova, Karolina. "Love yourself instead of abusing yourself." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-instead-of-abusing-yourself-91976/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Love yourself instead of abusing yourself." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-yourself-instead-of-abusing-yourself-91976/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












