"Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on"
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That subtext tracks with Maltz’s mid-century self-help-through-science project. As a physician best known for work that fed into psycho-cybernetics, he treated the self-image like a guidance system: your results follow your internal settings. The line’s intent is persuasive and slightly corrective. If you’re stuck, the fix isn’t more willpower; it’s releasing a constraint you didn’t realize you were gripping. It also quietly depathologizes failure. Struggle becomes drag, not destiny.
The metaphor carries a moral nudge, too. A handbrake is useful when parked; it prevents rolling backward. Maltz implies low self-esteem started as protection - against embarrassment, rejection, overreach - but becomes malfunction when left engaged. In a culture obsessed with hustle, that’s a sly inversion: the problem isn’t laziness, it’s friction. The cure he’s selling is permission to move without punishing yourself for moving.
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| Source | Later attribution: Brilliant Personal Development (Max Eggert, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9780273742494 · ID: W3h8oVws0ZsC
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... Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.' Maxwell Maltz, author of Psycho-Cybernetics 'Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.' Helen Keller 'Nothing builds self ... |
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Maltz, Maxwell. "Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/low-self-esteem-is-like-driving-through-life-with-5387/.
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"Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/low-self-esteem-is-like-driving-through-life-with-5387/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.





