"Lying is done with words and also with silence"
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The intent carries the pressure of Rich’s feminist politics and her sense of how institutions maintain themselves. In families, workplaces, classrooms, and states, silence becomes a kind of compliance: the abuse not reported, the discrimination smoothed over, the “it’s complicated” used to avoid taking a side. Rich’s phrasing implicates the listener as much as the speaker. If lying can be silent, then everyone who benefits from an unspoken arrangement is potentially participating in it.
Subtext: language isn’t merely expressive; it’s ethical. You don’t get to outsource responsibility to “I didn’t say anything.” Silence can protect the vulnerable, yes, but Rich is aiming at the quieter, more corrosive version: silence that protects the status quo. The sentence is lean, almost legalistic, which makes it feel like a charge. It reads like a warning from someone who has watched truth get managed - not just by propaganda, but by polite restraint, social fear, and the everyday bargains people make to stay safe.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rich, Adrienne. (2026, January 15). Lying is done with words and also with silence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lying-is-done-with-words-and-also-with-silence-36625/
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Rich, Adrienne. "Lying is done with words and also with silence." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lying-is-done-with-words-and-also-with-silence-36625/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Lying is done with words and also with silence." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/lying-is-done-with-words-and-also-with-silence-36625/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









