"Magic trick: to make people disappear, ask them to fulfill their promises"
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The subtext is less about promises than about the social economy that sustains them. In polite culture, promises are often a form of currency used to buy time, goodwill, or an exit from discomfort. Calling the bluff exposes the quiet contract everyone relies on: we’ll all pretend intentions are deeds as long as no one forces the conversion. The moment you do, people “disappear” - not necessarily physically, but through avoidance, excuses, strategic silence, the slow ghosting that modern life makes frictionless.
Cooley wrote aphorisms for an America where public language was getting slicker and private obligations more negotiable. Read now, the line feels almost predictive: a pre-social-media diagnosis of flake culture, corporate mission statements, political vows, and personal “let’s do lunch” promises that function as social lubrication rather than commitments. The cynicism is surgical, not grandiose. It suggests the real spell isn’t deception by the promiser; it’s the shared performance that lets everyone avoid the awkwardness of insisting that words mean something.
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| Topic | Fake Friends |
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Cooley, Mason. (2026, January 15). Magic trick: to make people disappear, ask them to fulfill their promises. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/magic-trick-to-make-people-disappear-ask-them-to-127817/
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Cooley, Mason. "Magic trick: to make people disappear, ask them to fulfill their promises." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/magic-trick-to-make-people-disappear-ask-them-to-127817/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Magic trick: to make people disappear, ask them to fulfill their promises." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/magic-trick-to-make-people-disappear-ask-them-to-127817/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.











