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Creativity Quote by John Walters

"Make your having dinner out become The Event of the Night, instead of just the beginning"

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Walters is pitching a small rebellion against the modern night-out script: dinner as the necessary pregame before the “real” action. The line works because it flips a hierarchy most people don’t even realize they’re obeying. In the usual choreography, you eat fast, drink fast, check the time, and treat the meal like an obstacle course to whatever comes next. Walters, a musician who lived inside nightlife economies, is arguing for a different kind of attention: make the meal itself the show.

The phrasing is slyly performative. “Make your having dinner out become The Event of the Night” borrows the language of entertainment and booking, as if you’re your own promoter. That capitalized “The Event” is doing a lot of cultural work: it mocks the way we outsource significance to concerts, clubs, and spectacles, then tells you to manufacture significance through intention. It’s not just about food; it’s about reclaiming pacing. Let dinner be the crescendo, not the warm-up act.

The subtext is also a critique of status anxiety. Treating dinner as “just the beginning” often means chasing a narrative you can report back: the late bar, the afterparty, the brush with cool. Walters suggests that the genuinely satisfying night is the one you actually inhabit. For a musician, that’s an intimate provocation: the best nights aren’t always the loudest. Sometimes the most radical move is to stop rushing toward the next room and let the room you’re in be enough.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walters, John. (2026, January 18). Make your having dinner out become The Event of the Night, instead of just the beginning. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/make-your-having-dinner-out-become-the-event-of-19494/

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Walters, John. "Make your having dinner out become The Event of the Night, instead of just the beginning." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/make-your-having-dinner-out-become-the-event-of-19494/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Make your having dinner out become The Event of the Night, instead of just the beginning." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/make-your-having-dinner-out-become-the-event-of-19494/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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John Walters (May 16, 1938 - July 30, 2001) was a Musician from United Kingdom.

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