"Man, born of woman, has found it a hard thing to forgive her for giving him birth. The patriarchal protest against the ancient matriarch has borne strange fruit through the years"
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Smith opens with a provocation that sounds almost biblical, then twists it into indictment. “Man, born of woman” is a reminder so basic it’s embarrassing to deny: every patriarchal order starts inside a female body. The sting is in the next clause: he “has found it a hard thing to forgive her for giving him birth.” Forgive her for what, exactly - his dependence, his vulnerability, his mortality? Smith’s intent isn’t to psychoanalyze individual men as much as to expose a cultural resentment dressed up as “natural” hierarchy. Patriarchy, in her reading, isn’t confidence; it’s an overcompensation ritualized into law, religion, and custom.
The subtext is that misogyny often pretends to be about women’s supposed defects, when it’s really about male discomfort with origins. If you can’t tolerate the fact that you began as someone’s helpless product, you build a world that insists you were meant to rule. “The patriarchal protest against the ancient matriarch” frames history as backlash: not the steady march of progress, but a sustained argument against a memory (or myth) of female-centered power. Whether or not one buys literal “ancient matriarchy,” the phrase works as cultural shorthand for the suppressed knowledge that women’s labor - reproductive, domestic, emotional - is foundational.
“Strange fruit” lands with deliberate menace. It’s not just “consequences”; it’s bitter harvest, an American phrase haunted by racial terror. Smith, a Southern writer who anatomized segregation’s moral rot, links gender domination to the broader ecology of violence: once a society learns to rationalize control over the source of life, it gets fluent at rationalizing control over everyone else.
The subtext is that misogyny often pretends to be about women’s supposed defects, when it’s really about male discomfort with origins. If you can’t tolerate the fact that you began as someone’s helpless product, you build a world that insists you were meant to rule. “The patriarchal protest against the ancient matriarch” frames history as backlash: not the steady march of progress, but a sustained argument against a memory (or myth) of female-centered power. Whether or not one buys literal “ancient matriarchy,” the phrase works as cultural shorthand for the suppressed knowledge that women’s labor - reproductive, domestic, emotional - is foundational.
“Strange fruit” lands with deliberate menace. It’s not just “consequences”; it’s bitter harvest, an American phrase haunted by racial terror. Smith, a Southern writer who anatomized segregation’s moral rot, links gender domination to the broader ecology of violence: once a society learns to rationalize control over the source of life, it gets fluent at rationalizing control over everyone else.
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