"Man finds it hard to get what he wants, because he does not want the best; God finds it hard to give, because He would give the best, and man will not take it"
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Then he commits the bolder move: God also “finds it hard.” That’s an audacious bit of anthropomorphism for a Victorian Christian writer, and it’s doing rhetorical work. It makes divine generosity feel less like a cosmic vending machine and more like a relationship with friction. The twist is that God’s difficulty isn’t reluctance; it’s insistence. “He would give the best” frames God not as a negotiator but as a giver who refuses to downgrade the gift to match our appetite. The sting lands in the last phrase: “man will not take it.” The obstacle is consent, not supply.
In MacDonald’s theological universe (deeply influential on later writers like C.S. Lewis), grace is not a coupon for comfort; it’s an invasive kindness aimed at renovation. “Best” implies a good so thorough it threatens the smaller goods we cling to. The line works because it reframes disappointment as misrecognition: we keep asking for less, then blame heaven for not delivering more.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacDonald, George. (2026, January 15). Man finds it hard to get what he wants, because he does not want the best; God finds it hard to give, because He would give the best, and man will not take it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-finds-it-hard-to-get-what-he-wants-because-he-143881/
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MacDonald, George. "Man finds it hard to get what he wants, because he does not want the best; God finds it hard to give, because He would give the best, and man will not take it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-finds-it-hard-to-get-what-he-wants-because-he-143881/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Man finds it hard to get what he wants, because he does not want the best; God finds it hard to give, because He would give the best, and man will not take it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-finds-it-hard-to-get-what-he-wants-because-he-143881/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.












