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Happiness Quote by Fyodor Dostoevsky

"Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it"

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Dostoevsky needles a very modern habit: treating suffering like a ledger we’re morally obligated to balance, while joy remains an unrecorded windfall. The line works because it’s both compassionate and faintly accusatory. “Man is fond of counting his troubles” isn’t just observation; it suggests a perverse intimacy with pain, as if grievances confer identity, seriousness, even righteousness. Troubles are countable in a way joys often aren’t: they come with clear narratives, villains, and receipts. Happiness, by contrast, is diffuse, easy to dismiss as luck, or too ordinary to dignify with arithmetic.

The pivot is the sly conditional: “If he counted them up as he ought to.” That “ought” carries the moral payload. Dostoevsky isn’t offering a self-help trick; he’s implying a spiritual duty to notice grace. Subtextually, he’s arguing against the pride hidden inside despair. To fixate on misfortune can become a form of egotism, a belief that your lot is uniquely deprived, that the universe owes you a different distribution.

Context matters: Dostoevsky wrote out of a life shaped by extremity - mock execution, Siberian imprisonment, debt, illness. His fiction treats suffering as real, not aesthetic. So this isn’t denialism. It’s a rebuke to selective accounting, the kind that makes misery feel inevitable and joy feel accidental.

“Every lot has enough happiness provided for it” lands with theological resonance: happiness as provision, not achievement. It’s a hard claim, but strategically so. It challenges the reader to look for what’s already been placed in their hands, not what’s missing from them.

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Dostoevsky, Fyodor. (2026, January 14). Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-is-fond-of-counting-his-troubles-but-he-does-31288/

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Dostoevsky, Fyodor. "Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-is-fond-of-counting-his-troubles-but-he-does-31288/.

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"Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-is-fond-of-counting-his-troubles-but-he-does-31288/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Fyodor Dostoevsky

Fyodor Dostoevsky (November 11, 1821 - February 9, 1881) was a Novelist from Russia.

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