"Man must be associated with his fellows"
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The phrasing is instructive. “Must” carries the pressure of necessity, not aspiration. Larkin isn’t praising friendship; he’s prescribing solidarity as survival. “Associated” is deliberately plain, almost bureaucratic, which is the point: collective life is not romantic. It’s meetings, dues, arguments, discipline, and the unglamorous work of standing with someone you didn’t choose. That word also hints at unions and associations as formal structures - a reminder that power doesn’t emerge from vibes, but from organization.
The subtext pushes against the era’s dominant story that a man is self-made, responsible only to his own hustle. Larkin flips that script: the “man” in question becomes fully himself only in relation to others, because rights without a community to defend them are paper-thin. In the shadow of the 1913 Dublin Lockout and the broader fights over worker recognition, the line functions as both ethic and strategy: to be unassociated is to be governable.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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"Man must be associated with his fellows." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/man-must-be-associated-with-his-fellows-61719/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









