"Man's real life is happy, chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so"
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Poe’s intent isn’t self-help. It’s an x-ray of human coping, one that fits his broader obsession with desire and dread feeding each other. The subtext is almost accusatory: we’re not nourished by satisfaction, we’re anesthetized by anticipation. That “soon” does the heavy lifting. It’s the word of gamblers, romantics, and the chronically heartbroken. Push the promise just far enough ahead and you can keep going; let it arrive and you risk discovering it was never capable of carrying the weight you put on it.
In the context of a writer whose work circles grief, premature burial, and the mind’s theatricality, the sentence reads like a calm aside delivered from inside the storm. It’s not that Poe denies happiness; he relocates it to the future tense, where it can be safely imagined, endlessly postponed, and therefore rarely disproven. The cruelty is also the mercy: expectation keeps the lights on.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Poe, Edgar Allan. (2026, January 18). Man's real life is happy, chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mans-real-life-is-happy-chiefly-because-he-is-13923/
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Poe, Edgar Allan. "Man's real life is happy, chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mans-real-life-is-happy-chiefly-because-he-is-13923/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Man's real life is happy, chiefly because he is ever expecting that it soon will be so." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/mans-real-life-is-happy-chiefly-because-he-is-13923/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














