"Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future"
About this Quote
The genius is in the “two thieves.” Regret and fear aren’t just emotions; they’re pickpockets. Regret steals agency by rewriting the past as a fixed verdict on who you are. Fear steals possibility by treating the future like a courtroom where you’re already guilty. Between them, you’re immobilized, punished without a trial. That “many of us” makes it communal, almost conversational, but it’s also a quiet indictment: this is a widespread habit, not an exceptional tragedy.
Context matters: Oursler was a mid-century American writer steeped in a culture where religious language still carried social electricity, but modern anxieties were accelerating - war memories, economic whiplash, the sense that tomorrow could change overnight. The line works because it fuses sacred narrative with everyday mental health before “mental health” was a public vocabulary. It’s a metaphor that turns self-help into moral urgency: stop worshiping your worst timelines.
Quote Details
| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Monks and Me (Mary Paterson, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781612832135 · ID: l4S-wsoq9ScC
Evidence:
... Fulton Oursler once wrote, “Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves—regret for the past and fear of the future.” Tibetan Buddhist Chogyam Trungpa recognized that there are people who 116. |
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Oursler, Fulton. (2026, March 7). Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-of-us-crucify-ourselves-between-two-thieves-162994/
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Oursler, Fulton. "Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future." FixQuotes. March 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-of-us-crucify-ourselves-between-two-thieves-162994/.
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"Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future." FixQuotes, 7 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-of-us-crucify-ourselves-between-two-thieves-162994/. Accessed 15 Mar. 2026.






