"Many people think that depression is something you just have to live with when you get older, but it's not"
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The subtext is about stigma disguised as realism. When people say depression is just part of getting older, they’re often smuggling in beliefs about decline, disposability, and emotional thrift: don’t make a fuss, don’t demand resources, don’t complicate the narrative of “aging gracefully.” Bosley flips that script with a simple “but it’s not,” a phrase that carries moral weight without scolding. It’s reassurance dressed as common sense.
Context matters here. In the late 20th century, public talk about mental health was opening up, but older generations were still expected to keep it private, to treat inner suffering as character. An actor associated with comfort television using his platform this way is strategic: credibility through familiarity. The line doesn’t dramatize depression; it normalizes treatment. That’s why it works. It replaces fatalism with a baseline expectation: if you can address pain, you should.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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Bosley, Tom. (2026, January 16). Many people think that depression is something you just have to live with when you get older, but it's not. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-people-think-that-depression-is-something-84918/
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Bosley, Tom. "Many people think that depression is something you just have to live with when you get older, but it's not." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-people-think-that-depression-is-something-84918/.
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"Many people think that depression is something you just have to live with when you get older, but it's not." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-people-think-that-depression-is-something-84918/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.


