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Parenting & Family Quote by Gabriela Mistral

"Many things we need can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time his bones are formed, his mind developed. To him we cannot say tomorrow, his name is today"

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Austerity gets indicted here with the calm authority of a lullaby turned ultimatum. Mistral, a poet who spent years as a teacher and child advocate, isn’t offering a warm sentiment about childhood; she’s attacking a familiar adult alibi: the idea that care can be postponed until the budget clears, the work slows down, the nation stabilizes, the crisis passes. She grants that plenty of “needs” can wait, then draws a hard moral border around the child. Everything on the other side is excuse-making.

The line works because it makes time physical. “Bones are formed” and “mind developed” translate ethics into biology: delay isn’t just unkind, it’s materially destructive. Childhood becomes a narrow window with consequences, not a nostalgic phase we can compensate for later. Mistral’s blunt rhythm helps, too. Short declarations, plain nouns, no ornament. The voice is almost bureaucratic in its clarity, as if she’s writing a memo to the powerful: your schedules are not the measure of reality.

The killer turn is the personification: “we cannot say tomorrow, his name is today.” “Tomorrow” becomes the word adults hide behind; “today” becomes the child’s proper name, an identity that demands recognition. Subtext: every postponed meal, lesson, vaccination, shelter bed, or simple attention is a decision, not an accident. In a century defined by inequality, war, and state-building projects that promised future progress, Mistral insists on a sharper metric: if the future is purchased by neglecting children in the present, it’s not progress at all.

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Later attribution: Answers for the 4-A Epidemic (Joseph A Cannizzaro, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781616387020 · ID: Ah9dEQAAQBAJ
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... Gabriela Mistral, a Nobel Prize–winning Chilean poet, educator, and diplomat ... Many things we need can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time his bones are formed, his mind developed. To him we cannot say tomorrow; his name is today ...
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Mistral, Gabriela. (2026, February 8). Many things we need can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time his bones are formed, his mind developed. To him we cannot say tomorrow, his name is today. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-things-we-need-can-wait-the-child-cannot-now-170556/

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Mistral, Gabriela. "Many things we need can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time his bones are formed, his mind developed. To him we cannot say tomorrow, his name is today." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-things-we-need-can-wait-the-child-cannot-now-170556/.

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"Many things we need can wait. The child cannot. Now is the time his bones are formed, his mind developed. To him we cannot say tomorrow, his name is today." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/many-things-we-need-can-wait-the-child-cannot-now-170556/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Gabriela Mistral (April 7, 1889 - January 10, 1957) was a Poet from Chile.

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