"Marilyn and I were rumored to be an item. We were friends. Nothing more. Marilyn was one of the sweetest creatures that ever lived"
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"We were friends. Nothing more". lands like a firm boundary, but it’s also a protective one. Davis is controlling the story without sounding defensive, choosing bluntness over salacious detail. In the mid-century celebrity ecosystem, especially one policed by racial panic and moral regulation, the idea of a Black male entertainer and the world’s most photographed white woman wasn’t neutral gossip; it carried social risk. Denying the affair is also denying the spectacle others wanted to stage through them.
Then he pivots: "Marilyn was one of the sweetest creatures that ever lived". Calling her a "creature" softens her into something delicate and almost otherworldly, as if ordinary categories can’t contain her. It’s affectionate, yes, but it also reframes Monroe away from the public’s preferred caricature (the sex symbol, the scandal magnet) and toward a private memory: kind, vulnerable, human. Davis isn’t merely correcting the record; he’s asserting that intimacy isn’t always erotic, and that the truest defense of a famous woman might be to praise her character rather than her mythology.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Jr., Sammy Davis,. (2026, January 18). Marilyn and I were rumored to be an item. We were friends. Nothing more. Marilyn was one of the sweetest creatures that ever lived. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marilyn-and-i-were-rumored-to-be-an-item-we-were-12481/
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Jr., Sammy Davis,. "Marilyn and I were rumored to be an item. We were friends. Nothing more. Marilyn was one of the sweetest creatures that ever lived." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marilyn-and-i-were-rumored-to-be-an-item-we-were-12481/.
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"Marilyn and I were rumored to be an item. We were friends. Nothing more. Marilyn was one of the sweetest creatures that ever lived." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marilyn-and-i-were-rumored-to-be-an-item-we-were-12481/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.


