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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mae West

"Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution"

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Mae West turns a supposedly wholesome civic ideal into a wink at the audience, collapsing “institution” into its other meaning: the place you get put when society decides you’re a problem. The line works because it pretends to compliment marriage while quietly treating it like a trap with visiting hours. “Great institution” is polite, public language; “I’m not ready” is the personal dodge; the punch is that last word, where commitment slides into confinement.

The specific intent is refusal without apology. West isn’t arguing against love, she’s rejecting the bargain marriage historically offered women: respectability in exchange for sexual and social containment. Her persona thrived on appearing candid about desire in an era built on euphemism, so the joke doubles as a protest. She doesn’t need a manifesto; she needs one surgical ambiguity.

The subtext is about power and surveillance. Marriage is framed as a social system that disciplines people, especially women, into acceptable roles. By equating it with institutionalization, she implies that what’s marketed as stability can function as punishment for independence. The humor isn’t soft; it’s a sly indictment delivered in a cocktail-glass cadence.

Context matters: West’s peak fame came in the early 1930s, just before Hollywood’s Production Code tightened the screws on sexual speech and “immorality.” Her quip reads like pre-censorship mischief and a warning shot. She performs freedom while naming the machinery designed to neutralize it, then exits on the laugh she’s already earned.

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TopicMarriage
SourceMae West — quip: "Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution." Listed on the Mae West Wikiquote page.
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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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