"Marriage may often be a stormy lake, but celibacy is almost always a muddy horse pond"
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Then comes the knife: celibacy as a “muddy horse pond.” Not a serene monastery pool, not a philosopher’s clean solitude - a stagnant utility puddle, trampled and cloudy, made for animals and chores. Peacock’s comic cruelty is strategic. He’s not arguing that marriage is bliss; he’s arguing that opting out is rarely the heroic alternative people pretend it is. The insult implies boredom, diminished horizons, a life narrowed into mere maintenance. You can almost hear the social satire: the bachelor congratulating himself on independence, while circling the same small patch of compromised comfort.
Context matters. Peacock, a Regency-era satirist with a sharp eye for fashionable hypocrisy, is writing in a culture where marriage was economic infrastructure and respectability theater. His subtext is anti-sentimental and anti-puritan at once: adulthood is messy either way, but only one mess offers room to swim.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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Peacock, Thomas Love. (2026, January 16). Marriage may often be a stormy lake, but celibacy is almost always a muddy horse pond. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marriage-may-often-be-a-stormy-lake-but-celibacy-117363/
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Peacock, Thomas Love. "Marriage may often be a stormy lake, but celibacy is almost always a muddy horse pond." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marriage-may-often-be-a-stormy-lake-but-celibacy-117363/.
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"Marriage may often be a stormy lake, but celibacy is almost always a muddy horse pond." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marriage-may-often-be-a-stormy-lake-but-celibacy-117363/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.





