"Marrying to increase love is like gaming to become rich; alas, you only lose what little stock you had before"
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The subtext is less romantic cynicism than social arithmetic. In Wycherley's world, marriage often consolidates property, repairs reputations, and disciplines desire; it doesn't reliably produce tenderness. So the joke isn't merely that people marry for the wrong reasons, but that the institution itself is structurally misaligned with the thing it advertises. Pairing "marrying" with "gaming" drags polite society into the same moral category as vice. It's a Restoration-era mic drop: the respectable and the disreputable are adjacent businesses with different signage.
Context matters. Wycherley wrote in a post-Puritan, courtly culture where sexual candor and status anxiety coexisted, and marriage could look like a transaction performed in public to manage private appetites. The aphorism lands because it weaponizes a familiar metaphor (risk, stakes, loss) against a cherished narrative (marriage as love's amplifier). It also flatters the audience's sophistication: only the naive think the ceremony changes the odds.
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Wycherley, William. (n.d.). Marrying to increase love is like gaming to become rich; alas, you only lose what little stock you had before. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marrying-to-increase-love-is-like-gaming-to-27645/
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Wycherley, William. "Marrying to increase love is like gaming to become rich; alas, you only lose what little stock you had before." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marrying-to-increase-love-is-like-gaming-to-27645/.
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"Marrying to increase love is like gaming to become rich; alas, you only lose what little stock you had before." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/marrying-to-increase-love-is-like-gaming-to-27645/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









