"May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air"
About this Quote
The follow-up image is where the line turns from wistful to quietly savage: "I might as well open the window and kiss the night air". That’s not poetic exaggeration so much as a diagnosis of what mediation does to yearning. If the kiss can only happen through writing, it becomes indistinguishable from kissing nothing at all. The window is a perfect Kafka aperture: a portal to outside-ness that doesn’t deliver escape, only a colder, more honest emptiness. The night air is senseless, indifferent, unanswering - a better stand-in for the beloved than the paper is, because at least it doesn’t pretend.
Contextually, Kafka’s letters (and his fiction) orbit a recurring bind: the self that wants closeness but can only manage it through systems - language, etiquette, self-interrogation - that turn feeling into procedure. The intent isn’t to deny love; it’s to show how modern consciousness, hyperaware of its own performance, can make even tenderness feel like an administrative error.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
|---|---|
| Source | Letter to Milena (in Letters to Milena), Franz Kafka , contains the line "May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kafka, Franz. (2026, January 14). May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/may-i-kiss-you-then-on-this-miserable-paper-i-19456/
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Kafka, Franz. "May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/may-i-kiss-you-then-on-this-miserable-paper-i-19456/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/may-i-kiss-you-then-on-this-miserable-paper-i-19456/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










