"Maybe our generation is more about sex, but it feels like romance is dying out"
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Bloom’s line lands like a half-confession, half-eulogy: we’re getting better at access, worse at meaning. As an actor who came up in the late-90s/2000s celebrity machine - tabloid courtships, paparazzi proposals, the whole public-performance era of love - he’s speaking from a front-row seat to how intimacy becomes content. The “maybe” is doing quiet work here: it’s a softener that admits complicity while still gesturing toward critique. He’s not scolding; he’s mourning.
The contrast between “sex” and “romance” isn’t prudish. It’s about pace and disposability. Sex reads as plentiful, efficient, unromantic in the way consumer culture trains us to be: swipe, sample, move on. Romance, by contrast, requires inefficiency - sustained attention, narrative, risk, the willingness to be a little uncool. Saying it’s “dying out” frames romance as a cultural practice, not just a private feeling, something eroded by the incentives around us: dating apps that optimize for choice, work lives that squeeze time, and a social media environment that rewards irony over earnestness.
There’s also a gender-politics tightrope. Bloom’s generation watched sexual liberation become mainstream while also absorbing backlash narratives about “hookup culture.” His phrasing tries to honor sexual openness (“more about sex”) without celebrating it as progress or condemning it as decay. The subtext: we’ve become fluent in the mechanics of desire but less practiced in the art of devotion. For a public figure, that’s a pointed anxiety - when romance becomes a brand, sincerity is the first thing that starts to feel implausible.
The contrast between “sex” and “romance” isn’t prudish. It’s about pace and disposability. Sex reads as plentiful, efficient, unromantic in the way consumer culture trains us to be: swipe, sample, move on. Romance, by contrast, requires inefficiency - sustained attention, narrative, risk, the willingness to be a little uncool. Saying it’s “dying out” frames romance as a cultural practice, not just a private feeling, something eroded by the incentives around us: dating apps that optimize for choice, work lives that squeeze time, and a social media environment that rewards irony over earnestness.
There’s also a gender-politics tightrope. Bloom’s generation watched sexual liberation become mainstream while also absorbing backlash narratives about “hookup culture.” His phrasing tries to honor sexual openness (“more about sex”) without celebrating it as progress or condemning it as decay. The subtext: we’ve become fluent in the mechanics of desire but less practiced in the art of devotion. For a public figure, that’s a pointed anxiety - when romance becomes a brand, sincerity is the first thing that starts to feel implausible.
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